Postpartum Depression Treatment in California

Part 1: Recognizing the Signs and Knowing When to Get Help


Becoming a parent can be beautiful — and overwhelming.
Between sleepless nights, hormone changes, and the pressure to “enjoy every moment,” many new mothers feel emotionally stretched beyond their limits.

If you’re struggling after having a baby and wondering, “Is this normal?” — you’re not alone. And you’re not failing.

What you’re feeling may be postpartum depression (PPD) — a common, treatable mental health condition that affects 1 in 7 women after childbirth.

At CEREVITY, we provide compassionate online therapy across California for new and expecting mothers navigating postpartum depression, anxiety, and identity shifts. Our licensed therapists are trained to help you find stability, strength, and yourself again.


📞 Call (562) 295-6650 or visit https://cerevity.com/get-started

We’ll help you get matched with a therapist who understands the realities of motherhood and meets you with zero judgment.


What Is Postpartum Depression?

Postpartum depression is more than just the “baby blues.” While it’s normal to feel weepy, irritable, or overwhelmed in the first two weeks after birth, PPD lasts longer and goes deeper.

You might feel:

  • Persistent sadness or emptiness

  • Trouble bonding with your baby

  • Guilt, shame, or feeling like you’re “not a good mom”

  • Loss of interest in things you used to enjoy

  • Anger or irritability — sometimes directed inward or at loved ones

  • Appetite or sleep changes (beyond what’s expected with a newborn)

  • Thoughts of running away — or not wanting to wake up

PPD can show up weeks or even months after giving birth. It can affect anyone — even if you didn’t experience depression before.

And it’s not your fault.


Who’s at Risk for Postpartum Depression?

Any birthing parent can develop PPD, but certain factors may increase the risk:

  • Personal or family history of depression or anxiety

  • Difficult pregnancy or birth experience

  • Lack of sleep or support

  • Hormonal imbalances

  • Medical complications for you or baby

  • Pre-existing trauma or chronic stress

  • Unplanned or high-risk pregnancy

  • Relationship conflict

  • NICU hospitalization

  • Pressure to breastfeed when it’s not sustainable

We also recognize that cultural identity, immigration stress, and generational expectations often complicate the emotional load of new motherhood — especially for BIPOC clients.


Postpartum Depression vs. Postpartum Anxiety

It’s common for PPD and postpartum anxiety (PPA) to overlap. You may also experience:

  • Racing thoughts about your baby’s safety

  • Constant worry or dread

  • Panic attacks

  • Obsessive checking or intrusive thoughts

  • Difficulty relaxing, even when the baby is asleep

These symptoms can feel isolating and scary — but they are treatable.

If you’ve ever asked, “What’s wrong with me?” — the answer is: nothing. You are having a very real, very human response to a huge life transition.


What About Intrusive Thoughts?

Some new parents experience scary, unwanted thoughts — like accidentally dropping the baby, hurting the baby, or harming themselves. These are called intrusive thoughts and are often part of postpartum OCD or anxiety.

Important: intrusive thoughts do not mean you want to act on them. In fact, they are deeply distressing because they go against your values.

A qualified therapist can help you manage these thoughts without shame and teach you how to stop them from running your life.


Why Therapy Matters

Many new mothers delay getting help because they think:

  • “It’ll get better on its own.”

  • “I should be grateful — not depressed.”

  • “I don’t want to be labeled or judged.”

  • “I don’t have time.”

  • “This is just how motherhood feels.”

But untreated PPD can affect:

  • Bonding with your baby

  • Your physical health

  • Your relationship with your partner

  • Your sense of self

  • Your ability to function day to day

Therapy isn’t selfish — it’s preventative care for your mind, your relationships, and your future.


How Therapy Can Help Postpartum Depression

At CEREVITY, our online therapy services for PPD focus on:

  • Reducing guilt and self-blame

  • Processing the birth experience (especially if traumatic)

  • Supporting identity shifts and loss of autonomy

  • Addressing intrusive thoughts or anxiety

  • Creating space to grieve unmet expectations

  • Building boundaries and sustainable support systems

  • Learning tools to regulate mood, manage overwhelm, and reconnect with joy

We use evidence-based approaches like CBT, ACT, DBT, and trauma-informed care — but tailor everything to your emotional bandwidth.

Sessions are always flexible, parent-friendly, and judgment-free.


What If I Can’t Leave the House?

You don’t have to.

All of our sessions are done online, from wherever you feel safe and comfortable — whether that’s your couch, your bed, or a parked car while the baby naps.

We work with your schedule, your pace, and your reality. No commuting. No waiting rooms. Just human connection when you need it most.


You Deserve Support — Not Just Survival

Postpartum depression lies. It tells you that you’re failing, that you’re alone, that this is how it will always feel.

But therapy offers something PPD doesn’t: hope, clarity, and relief.


Ready to feel more like yourself again?

📞 Call (562) 295-6650 or visit https://cerevity.com/get-started
We’ll help you take the first step — and walk with you every step after that.

You are not meant to do this alone.

Whether you’ve just had your first baby or your third, postpartum depression can shake your identity, your energy, and your ability to connect. But with the right support, things can get better — slowly, steadily, and meaningfully.

In Part 2, we’re walking through what therapy for PPD looks like, how long it lasts, how to use Aetna insurance for coverage, and how to know when you’re truly on the mend.


How Long Does Postpartum Therapy Last?

There’s no universal timeline for healing, but most postpartum clients start feeling relief after 6–12 sessions. The duration depends on:

  • The severity of your symptoms

  • When you begin treatment

  • Your support system

  • Whether there’s underlying trauma

  • Your goals for therapy

Some clients attend therapy weekly at first, then taper to biweekly or monthly. Others continue long-term to process identity shifts, childhood wounds, or parenting challenges.

There’s no “right” pace — only your pace.


What Does a Typical Therapy Session Include?

Each session is built around your current needs and capacity. Sessions may include:

  • Processing emotional overwhelm or intrusive thoughts

  • Exploring guilt, shame, or unmet expectations

  • Reframing perfectionism and internalized pressure

  • Identifying small, manageable ways to feel more grounded

  • Talking through breastfeeding, sleep, and boundaries

  • Exploring identity shifts as a parent, partner, and individual

  • Strengthening your voice in family or partner dynamics

We don’t expect you to “have it together.” Come as you are — messy, tired, emotional. We’ll meet you there.


What If I’m Not Bonding with My Baby?

Therapy can help. Difficulty bonding is common and doesn’t make you a bad parent. In fact, recognizing the disconnection is the first step toward healing it.

Together, we’ll explore:

  • What’s blocking connection (shame, grief, trauma, resentment, exhaustion)

  • Gentle ways to begin fostering attachment without forcing it

  • How to regulate your nervous system so your baby can co-regulate with you

  • How to grieve the birth story or postpartum experience you didn’t get

  • How to give yourself permission to grow love, not just feel it instantly


Does Aetna Insurance Cover Postpartum Therapy?

Yes. Aetna typically covers mental health treatment for postpartum depression under both individual and employer-sponsored plans.

Here’s how it works:

  • Online therapy sessions are usually covered at the same rate as in-person

  • No pre-authorization is required in most cases

  • Affordable copays (often $20–$50 per session depending on your plan)

  • Mental health parity laws ensure maternity-related mental health support is equal to physical health coverage

💡 CEREVITY is experienced in working with Aetna. We verify your benefits for you and help you understand what’s covered before you commit to treatment.


What Does Recovery Look Like?

Progress is not a straight line — but here are signs that therapy is helping:

  • You feel more emotionally stable, less on edge

  • Your thoughts are less self-critical

  • You laugh — even just once — and mean it

  • You ask for help without guilt

  • You feel more connected to your baby or partner

  • Your intrusive thoughts no longer scare or control you

  • You have tools to manage hard days

  • You start to believe: “I’m doing okay”

You might still have hard moments — but they don’t define your days.


Partner Support and Co-Parenting in Therapy

Postpartum depression affects the whole family. That’s why we often recommend:

  • Including partners in one or two sessions

  • Exploring communication, intimacy, and co-parenting challenges

  • Supporting dads or co-parents who may be struggling silently

  • Navigating resentment or emotional disconnect during the fourth trimester

Your needs matter — and you deserve care even if your partner is also adjusting.


When to Reach Out for Help

If you’re experiencing any of the following, therapy can help:

  • You cry daily or feel emotionally numb

  • You have intrusive thoughts that distress you

  • You avoid holding or being alone with your baby

  • You feel like your family would be better off without you

  • You feel intense guilt, rage, or worthlessness

  • You’ve stopped enjoying anything — even rest

  • You’re struggling to sleep even when the baby sleeps

  • You feel overwhelmed by the thought of tomorrow

Please don’t wait. These are not personal failures — they’re symptoms that deserve attention.


Why CEREVITY?

We offer more than just therapy — we offer real understanding.

At CEREVITY, you’ll find:

  • Licensed therapists trained in perinatal mental health

  • Spanish-speaking providers available

  • Online access across all of California

  • Flexible scheduling (including evenings and weekends)

  • Gentle, nonjudgmental support no matter how you’re feeling

Whether you’re battling sadness, rage, or guilt — or just feel numb — we’re here to walk with you through it.


Start Healing Today

Postpartum depression is not a personal failure — it’s a medical condition. And it’s also a sign of how deeply you care.

Let’s turn that care inward now.

📞 Call (562) 295-6650 or visit https://cerevity.com/get-started
We’ll help you reconnect with yourself — not just as a mother, but as a whole person.