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How to save my marriage: what actually works.

Couple therapy has randomized trial evidence behind it, and the same trials record gains that shrink after a year and marriages that end anyway. Repair is a real possibility with real support behind it. Nothing in the literature makes it a promise, and no honest account of saving a marriage prints only the first half.

THE QUICK TAKEAWAY

Marital distress responds to treatment more often than most people expect and less reliably than most marketing suggests. A 2019 meta-analysis of 33 randomized controlled trials with 2,730 participants found medium effects on relationship satisfaction at the end of treatment, smaller effects six months later, and effects near zero for behavioural couple therapy past twelve months. What changes a marriage is the interaction pattern, not the volume of effort poured into it. Where there is violence or coercive control, couple therapy is not the indicated first step and the National Domestic Violence Hotline at thehotline.org comes first. If distress becomes acute, call or text 988.

§01 / 09 / Definition

Why trying harder rarely works.

Marriages in serious trouble are rarely marriages where two people stopped trying. Effort applied inside an unchanged pattern reproduces the pattern, which is why couples can describe a year of increased effort and no change at all. What moves a marriage is the interaction sequence: who pursues, who withdraws, and what each spouse reads into the other's move.

Marriages in serious trouble are rarely marriages where two people stopped trying. Most couples who arrive for treatment have tried a great deal, for a long time, inside a pattern that converts every attempt into more of the same. Couple therapy does have genuine randomized trial evidence behind it: a 2019 meta-analysis in the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, restricted to randomized controlled trials, pooled 33 studies and 2,730 participants and found medium effects on relationship satisfaction at the end of treatment, smaller effects six months on, and, for behavioural couple therapy measured past twelve months, an effect of g = 0.06. One question has to be settled before any of that applies. Where there is violence or coercive control in a marriage, conjoint couple therapy is not the indicated first step. The National Domestic Violence Hotline states that it does not encourage anyone in an abusive relationship to seek counselling with their partner, and that abuse is not a relationship problem; thehotline.org is where that belongs instead. CEREVITY is a nationwide network of independent licensed clinicians working with adults trying to repair a marriage while continuing to run departments, firms and companies. Work is private-pay, so no insurance claim is submitted and nothing is routed through an employer. Sessions run 50-minute, 90-minute or 3-hour. If distress becomes acute, call or text 988, or text HOME to 741741.

Five pressures on a marriage both people still want

01

Effort aimed at the wrong level

Both partners increase effort inside the same sequence: more explaining, more apologising, more accommodation, all of it delivered into a pattern that turns each move into evidence for the other person's position. The marriage does not respond because nothing structural has changed. The failure of all that effort is then read as proof that the marriage cannot be repaired, when what it actually shows is that effort was applied at the wrong level.

02

Demand and withdraw, running by itself

One partner raises the subject with rising urgency. The other goes quiet to keep the temperature down. Each move makes the other move more necessary, and the sequence runs whether or not either person wants it to. Couples describe this as something that happens to them rather than something they do, which is accurate, and it is also the reason instruction in better communication so rarely survives the drive home.

03

Deciding under a deadline nobody set

Ultimatums, threats to leave and self-imposed timelines compress a decision that needs months into a weekend. Senior professionals are unusually prone to this, having spent careers treating problems as things that yield to concentrated effort inside a quarter. A marriage assessed on that schedule will fail the assessment, because the interval between starting work and noticing change is longer than the deadline allows.

04

Litigating the part that was never going to change

Some of what looks like a solvable dispute is temperament, tempo or values, and negotiation does not convert it. Couples can spend years arguing the same difference in progressively better language and arrive nowhere, because the material was never available to change. Acceptance work exists for exactly this, and it is the part of couple therapy that most people have never heard of.

05

Help sought late, then measured immediately

Couples commonly arrive after years of decline and evaluate treatment on two weeks of it. Early sessions frequently surface material both people had been avoiding, which feels worse rather than better, so a marriage judged at that point looks as though it is deteriorating under treatment. Judgement that early is a measurement error, and it ends a great many courses of work that were about to become useful.

▶ Research

Three findings sit side by side and are almost never reported together. A 2019 meta-analysis of 33 randomized controlled trials with 2,730 participants found emotionally focused couples therapy at g = 0.73 on relationship satisfaction at the end of treatment and g = 0.66 six months later, with behavioural couple therapy at g = 0.53 and g = 0.35. Past twelve months, where only behavioural data existed, the pooled effect was g = 0.06. And in a four-year follow-up of 59 couples treated in a controlled outcome study, 38 percent of the behavioural marital therapy couples had divorced against 3 percent of the insight-oriented couples, with no differences visible at termination. Treatment moves the odds. It does not move them to certainty, and any account of saving a marriage that prints only the first number is selling something.1

Three findings that belong in the same paragraph

Couple therapy has real randomized evidence

A 2019 meta-analysis in the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, restricted to randomized controlled trials, pooled 33 studies and 2,730 participants and found medium effect sizes on relationship satisfaction at post-test: overall g = 0.60, behavioural couple therapy g = 0.53, emotionally focused couples therapy g = 0.73, with no significant difference between the two methods.

The gains fade, and the trials say so

In the same meta-analysis, effects six months after treatment were small: overall g = 0.44, behavioural couple therapy g = 0.35, emotionally focused couples therapy g = 0.66. Past twelve months, where only behavioural couple therapy data were available, the pooled effect was g = 0.06. The authors also flag potential publication bias as a reason for caution.

A meaningful share of couples separate anyway

Four-year follow-up data on 59 couples treated in a controlled outcome study found that 38 percent of the behavioural marital therapy couples had divorced, against 3 percent of the insight-oriented marital therapy couples, despite no significant differences between conditions at termination or at six-month follow-up.

Effort is not the missing ingredient. Two people can try extremely hard, for years, in precisely the pattern that is dismantling the marriage.

Who this actually involves

Both spouses are usually telling the truth about their own experience of the same marriage, and the two accounts do not reconcile, which is the condition the work starts in rather than a problem to solve before it.

01

The partner who wants to stay

The person most committed to repair usually carries the logistics of it: finding a clinician, booking the hour, raising the subject again. That role is exhausting and it quietly distorts the work, because a partner who is also the project manager of the marriage cannot easily say that they are tired of holding it. Clinical work names that arrangement rather than relying on it.

02

The partner who is not sure

Ambivalence is common and is not the same as refusal. A spouse who agrees to attend while privately doubting whether the marriage should continue is in a defensible position, and treating that doubt as an obstacle to be argued away is how couples end up in a course of therapy neither person believes in. Doubt is better handled openly and early than discovered in month five.

03

Employers and boards, kept outside

No employer holds a role here. CEREVITY works private-pay, so no insurance claim is submitted and nothing is routed through an employer benefits administrator. For clients whose organisations are actively assessing them for promotion or succession, that separation is the condition on which they will speak candidly about a marriage at all.

§02 / 09 / Telehealth

The patterns that have to change.

Demand and withdraw is the pattern couple therapy targets most often in a distressed marriage. A 2024 randomized trial of integrative behavioural couple therapy in 76 couples measured it directly and reported reductions in demand/withdraw and in mutual avoidance alongside improved marital adjustment, with the authors cautioning that the demand/withdraw effect size was 0.26.

A

The pattern becomes visible

Treatment describes the sequence both partners are inside: who moves toward, who moves away, what each reads into the other's move, and what the sequence does next. A pattern that can be named can be interrupted, and both people can tell whether the interruption worked. Neither is true of a general resolution to communicate better.

B

Acceptance and change are separated

Clinical work sorts the material into what can change and what has to be accommodated, instead of treating every difference as a negotiation waiting to be won. Couples usually find that the list of genuinely fixed differences is shorter than they feared and that the energy freed by dropping the unwinnable arguments is the first real gain they notice.

C

Both endings stay available

CEREVITY clinicians do not treat continuation of the marriage as the definition of success. Some marriages do not recover, and a process that has decided the answer before it starts cannot help either person find out. Work is structured so that repairing and separating are both permitted conclusions, and so that whichever one arrives is arrived at deliberately.

§03 / 09 / Mechanism

What couple therapy trials show.

Couple therapy trials report real gains that do not all hold. Across 33 randomized controlled trials with 2,730 participants pooled in 2019, emotionally focused couples therapy reached g = 0.73 on relationship satisfaction at post-test and g = 0.66 at six months; behavioural couple therapy reached g = 0.53, then g = 0.06 past twelve months. Averages, not a forecast for one marriage.

The best summary of what couple therapy delivers comes from a meta-analysis by Rathgeber, Buerkner, Schiller and Holling, published in the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy in 2019, which included randomized controlled trials only. The search found 33 suitable primary studies with 2,730 participants in total, all of them measuring relationship satisfaction. Robust-variance random-effects analysis produced medium effect sizes at post-test, with an overall g of 0.60, g = 0.53 for behavioural couple therapy and g = 0.73 for emotionally focused couples therapy. Six months after treatment the effects were small: overall g = 0.44, behavioural couple therapy g = 0.35, emotionally focused couples therapy g = 0.66. Beyond twelve months, where only behavioural couple therapy data were available, the pooled effect was g = 0.06. No significant difference in effect size was found between the two methods, and the authors state that results have to be interpreted with caution because of potential publication bias.

What that treatment actually does to a marriage is best seen in trials that measured the interaction pattern rather than satisfaction alone. Salimi and colleagues, writing in the Journal of Education and Health Promotion in 2024, randomly assigned 76 couples recruited in Iran to integrative behavioural couple therapy or to a no-intervention control, measuring marital adjustment on the Spanier Dyadic Adjustment Scale and communication on the Communication Patterns Questionnaire one week before the first session and one week after the last. The treated group attended eleven 90-minute sessions. Marital adjustment and constructive communication improved significantly, and two destructive patterns, mutual avoidance and demand/withdraw, were reduced at P = 0.001. The authors add the qualification that matters most here: the effect size for demand/withdraw was 0.26, which they say should be interpreted cautiously. Patterns move under treatment. They move less dramatically than the phrase breakthrough suggests.

The honest part of this literature is what happens over years. Snyder, Wills and Grady-Fletcher obtained four-year follow-up data on marital status and marital accord for 59 couples who had received either behavioural marital therapy or insight-oriented marital therapy in a controlled outcome study, reporting in the Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology in 1991. No significant differences between the two conditions had appeared at termination or at six-month follow-up. By four years, a significantly higher percentage of the behavioural couples had divorced: 38 percent, against 3 percent of the insight-oriented couples. Two things follow. Short-term equivalence between treatments can conceal a large long-term divergence, which is a caution about any outcome measured at the end of therapy. And a substantial share of couples who complete a well-conducted course of marital therapy are not together four years later. Some of those endings were the correct outcome and no trial can identify which ones.

► Standard advice vs. CEREVITY's approach

Standard therapy

"You both just need to try harder."

CEREVITY

"Effort inside an unchanged pattern reproduces the pattern. What changes a marriage is a change in the sequence, which is why the couples who have tried hardest are often the ones who have moved least."

Standard therapy

"Couples therapy fixes marriages."

CEREVITY

"Couple therapy produces medium gains in relationship satisfaction at the end of treatment across 33 randomized trials, smaller gains six months later, and for behavioural couple therapy past twelve months, effects near zero. Real, bounded, and not a promise."

Standard therapy

"If there is abuse, therapy will help you both communicate."

CEREVITY

"Abuse is not a communication problem. The National Domestic Violence Hotline does not encourage anyone in an abusive relationship to seek counselling with their partner, and safety planning comes before any conjoint work."

► Standard insurance-based therapy vs. CEREVITY's specialized approach for Married adults trying to repair a marriage
Standard insurance-based therapyCEREVITY's specialized approach
"You both just need to try harder.""Effort inside an unchanged pattern reproduces the pattern. What changes a marriage is a change in the sequence, which is why the couples who have tried hardest are often the ones who have moved least."
"Couples therapy fixes marriages.""Couple therapy produces medium gains in relationship satisfaction at the end of treatment across 33 randomized trials, smaller gains six months later, and for behavioural couple therapy past twelve months, effects near zero. Real, bounded, and not a promise."
"If there is abuse, therapy will help you both communicate.""Abuse is not a communication problem. The National Domestic Violence Hotline does not encourage anyone in an abusive relationship to seek counselling with their partner, and safety planning comes before any conjoint work."

A break from the page

Change the pattern, not the volume.

A first conversation is confidential and commits you to nothing. CEREVITY is a nationwide network of independent licensed clinicians working private-pay, with no claim submitted to any insurer and nothing routed through an employer. Sending a private inquiry takes about two minutes.

§04 / 09 / Cases

Common challenges we address.

Violence or coercive control in the marriage

The patternCouples sometimes arrive describing frightening arguments, monitored phones, controlled money or an unpredictable temper, and present all of it as a communication problem. CDC describes intimate partner violence as including psychological aggression, meaning verbal and non-verbal communication intended to harm another person mentally or emotionally or to exert control over them, alongside physical violence, sexual violence and stalking.

What we addressCEREVITY clinicians assess for this early and separately, including with each partner alone, because it does not surface in a joint room. Where abuse is present, conjoint couple therapy is not the indicated first step. The National Domestic Violence Hotline states that it does not encourage anyone in an abusive relationship to seek counselling with their partner, and that abuse is not a relationship problem. Safety planning and individual support come first, and thehotline.org is where to start.

One spouse has already decided

The patternA significant number of couples are not two people deciding together. One has been out of the marriage privately for a year and has agreed to attend so that the ending can be described as having tried everything. Standard couple work in that configuration produces months of activity, real expense and no movement, because the two people are not working on the same question.

What we addressClinicians ask the question directly rather than waiting for it to emerge, and where one spouse is genuinely undecided, the work shifts to that decision instead of proceeding as though repair were agreed. Naming a mixed agenda in week one is uncomfortable and is far cheaper than discovering it in month six, and it protects the partner who would otherwise spend that time being managed.

§05 / 09 / Methods

Evidence-based treatment approaches.

CEREVITY clinicians work on the interaction pattern in a marriage rather than the content of the last argument: who pursues, who withdraws, what each spouse does with the other's move, and which differences are going to be accepted rather than solved. Assessment for violence and coercive control comes first and is done with each partner separately.

Modality 01

Integrative behavioural couple therapy

Integrative behavioural couple therapy combines change-focused work with acceptance work on differences that are not going to move. In a randomized trial of 76 couples in Iran published in 2024, the treated group attended eleven 90-minute sessions and showed improved marital adjustment and constructive communication, with reductions in mutual avoidance and in demand/withdraw, though the authors noted the demand/withdraw effect size of 0.26 should be read cautiously.

Modality 02

Emotionally focused couples therapy

Emotionally focused couples therapy works on de-escalating the cycle first and rebuilding responsiveness second. In the 2019 meta-analysis restricted to randomized controlled trials, it produced g = 0.73 on relationship satisfaction at post-test and g = 0.66 at six months across the pooled sample of 33 studies and 2,730 participants, with no significant difference from behavioural couple therapy.

Modality 03

Individual sessions, 50-minute format

Individual work suits a spouse whose partner will not attend, and the material it covers is what that person can change unilaterally: their own move in the sequence, the timing of it, and what they are willing to keep doing while nothing reciprocates. Individual work is also where an honest reckoning with staying or leaving can happen without an audience.

Modality 04

Couples sessions, 90-minute format

The 90-minute block is used where a shorter session reliably opens material without getting near closing it, which is most conversations about money, sex, an affair or a decision to relocate. Longer sittings let both people finish a subject rather than stopping at the point of maximum exposure and carrying it home.

Modality 05

Intensive 3-hour session

The 3-hour format suits couples negotiating what the next six months will concretely look like: what each person has committed to, what is being accepted rather than solved, and what the review point is. CEREVITY clinicians use it when repeated shorter sessions have produced agreement in the room that does not survive the week.

§06 / 09 / Investment

Understanding the investment in private-pay care.

Private-pay, nationwide, and nothing filed with a payer

At CEREVITY, our online individual therapy sessions are structured as a direct investment in your mental agility and overall well-being. The investment includes:

  • Licensed mental health professional specializing in couple therapy for marriages in serious distress
  • Evidence-based, one-on-one approaches proven effective for a marriage in serious trouble that at least one spouse still wants to repair
  • Flexible online scheduling including evenings and weekends
  • Complete privacy with no insurance involvement or red tape
  • Married adults trying to repair a marriage expertise and understanding
  • Outcome tracking and progress measurement
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The cost of saving a marriage going unaddressed

Consider what is at stake when saving a marriage goes unaddressed:

Private-pay structure

Work is private-pay. No insurance claim is submitted, no diagnosis is filed with a payer, and nothing is routed through an employer benefits administrator. Marital distress is frequently not a billable diagnosis in any case, which means insurance-based care would require a clinician to record an individual disorder for one spouse instead.

What the fee covers

Fees cover clinician time in 50-minute, 90-minute or 3-hour blocks. No outcome is promised. What the fee buys is competent treatment of a specific interaction pattern, a structure in which both people can say what they have been avoiding, and a process that permits separating as an honest conclusion rather than treating it as a defeat.

§07 / 09 / Evidence

What the research shows.

Three findings frame this accurately. Couple therapy produces medium gains in relationship satisfaction at the end of treatment across 33 randomized controlled trials with 2,730 participants, with emotionally focused couples therapy at g = 0.73 and behavioural couple therapy at g = 0.53. Those gains shrink to g = 0.66 and g = 0.35 by six months and, where behavioural data extend past twelve months, to g = 0.06. And in a four-year follow-up of 59 treated couples, 38 percent of one arm had divorced against 3 percent of the other, with nothing visible at termination to predict it.

► Three numbers, kept together

g = 0.73

effect of emotionally focused couples therapy on relationship satisfaction at the end of treatment, pooled across 33 randomized controlled trials with 2,730 participants in a 2019 meta-analysis

Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 2019

g = 0.06

pooled effect of behavioural couple therapy on relationship satisfaction more than twelve months after treatment in the same 2019 meta-analysis, the only method with data that far out

Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 2019

38%

of behavioural marital therapy couples had divorced by four-year follow-up, against 3 percent of insight-oriented couples, among 59 couples treated in a controlled outcome study reported in 1991

Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 1991

Findings from a 2019 meta-analysis of randomized controlled trials in the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy and a four-year follow-up study in the Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology. All three describe groups, not individual marriages.

Read together, those findings support a particular way of working and rule out a common one. What they support is treating the interaction pattern as the unit of change, which is what integrative behavioural couple therapy and emotionally focused couples therapy both do, and what the 2024 trial of 76 couples measured when it recorded reductions in demand/withdraw and mutual avoidance. What they rule out is arithmetic about your own marriage. A pooled effect size describes an average across trial samples and says nothing about whether a particular couple will still be married in four years. Clinically, the useful distinction is between a marriage that is stuck and a marriage that is over. A stuck marriage is running a sequence neither person chose and it is workable material. A marriage where one spouse has privately finished is a different problem, and treating it as a repair project consumes months that the other partner would rather have spent knowing. Both are legitimate findings, and only one of them looks like success from the outside.

§§ / 09 / Recap

Key takeaways.

Five things to remember

  1. Effort is not the variable Marriages in trouble are rarely marriages where nobody tried. Effort inside an unchanged pattern reproduces the pattern, and the sequence of pursuit and withdrawal is what treatment actually targets.
  2. The evidence is real and bounded Across 33 randomized controlled trials with 2,730 participants, couple therapy reached medium effects on relationship satisfaction at post-test, small effects at six months, and g = 0.06 for behavioural couple therapy past twelve months.
  3. Some marriages end anyway In a four-year follow-up of 59 treated couples, 38 percent of one treatment arm had divorced against 3 percent of the other, with no difference between conditions visible at the end of therapy.
  4. Safety is assessed before repair Where there is violence or coercive control, conjoint couple therapy is not the indicated first step. The National Domestic Violence Hotline at thehotline.org does not encourage anyone in an abusive relationship to seek counselling with their partner.
  5. CEREVITY provides this through online individual therapy nationwide, with full privacy through its private-pay concierge network and no insurance involvement.

§08 / 09 / FAQ

Frequently asked questions.

How do I save my marriage?

Marriage repair starts with identifying the pattern rather than increasing the effort, because effort delivered into an unchanged sequence reproduces the sequence. Most distressed couples are running some version of demand and withdraw: one spouse presses the subject, the other goes quiet, and each move makes the other move more likely. Couple therapy targets that sequence directly. It also sorts the material into what can change and what has to be accepted, since some differences in temperament and tempo are not negotiable and years can be lost arguing them. Before any of this, safety is assessed. Where there is violence or coercive control, conjoint work is not the right first step and the National Domestic Violence Hotline at thehotline.org is.

Can couples therapy save a marriage?

Couple therapy improves marriages more often than not, and it does not save all of them. A 2019 meta-analysis restricted to randomized controlled trials pooled 33 studies and 2,730 participants and found medium effects on relationship satisfaction at the end of treatment, with emotionally focused couples therapy at g = 0.73 and behavioural couple therapy at g = 0.53, and no significant difference between the two. Six months later the effects were small, and past twelve months the behavioural figure was g = 0.06. The authors also warn that publication bias may inflate the picture. Treatment shifts the odds substantially. Nothing in the trial literature turns that into an assurance about a particular marriage.

Is it too late to save my marriage?

Marriages are rarely too far gone in the way people mean when they ask, but two conditions do change the answer. The first is whether both spouses are working on the same question; a marriage where one partner privately finished a year ago is not a repair project, and treating it as one costs the other person months. The second is safety, since conjoint work is not indicated where there is abuse. Otherwise, lateness is mostly a problem of measurement: couples who arrive after years of decline often judge treatment on two weeks of it, during which early sessions surface avoided material and the marriage feels worse rather than better.

How long does couples therapy take?

Course length varies by model and by what the marriage is carrying, and published trials give a useful sense of scale. In a 2024 randomized trial of integrative behavioural couple therapy, the treated group attended eleven 90-minute sessions and showed significant improvement in marital adjustment and constructive communication compared with an untreated control group. CEREVITY sessions run in 50-minute, 90-minute or 3-hour blocks, and the longer formats exist because certain conversations reliably open in a shorter hour without getting near closing. A realistic expectation is months rather than weeks, with the first visible change usually being a reduction in how badly the same argument goes.

What if my spouse will not go to therapy?

Individual work is the route when one spouse declines, and it is a genuine one rather than a consolation. What individual therapy can address is the half of the sequence you control: your own move, its timing, what you do when the other person withdraws, and how long you are willing to continue while nothing reciprocates. Marriages have changed on one person changing their contribution to a pattern, because a sequence needs both parts to run. Individual sessions are also where a clear-eyed reckoning with staying or leaving can happen without an audience, which is difficult to do inside a joint room.

Does couples therapy work if there has been abuse?

Couple therapy is not the indicated first step where there is violence or coercive control in a marriage. The National Domestic Violence Hotline states plainly that it does not encourage anyone in an abusive relationship to seek counselling with their partner, and that abuse is not a relationship problem; it also notes that an abuser may use what is said in therapy against their partner afterwards. CDC counts psychological aggression, meaning communication intended to harm someone mentally or emotionally or to exert control, alongside physical violence, sexual violence and stalking. Safety planning and individual support come first, and thehotline.org is where that begins. CEREVITY clinicians assess for this separately and early.

How does your private-pay pricing structure work?

As a private-pay concierge network, we offer structured investments in your mental health without the restrictions or privacy risks of insurance. You can review our full fee schedule and specific session lengths directly on our website. While this costs more than insurance copays, it provides the flexibility, total privacy, and highly specialized care that standard options cannot offer. View our current rates here.

How do you protect my privacy?

Privacy is foundational to our network. As a private-pay network, your sessions never appear on insurance records or EOBs that could be seen by employers, boards, or family members. We use HIPAA-compliant nationwide telehealth platforms, and you can attend sessions from anywhere with a private internet connection.

§09 / 09 / Begin

Workable, and never promised.

A marriage in serious trouble is workable material, and some marriages do not recover even when the work is done well. Both are true and the second is rarely printed. Sessions are private-pay, with no claim submitted to any insurer. If there is violence or coercive control, the National Domestic Violence Hotline at thehotline.org comes first. If distress becomes acute, call or text 988.

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§§ / Author

About Maria Gonzalez, PsyD.

Maria Gonzalez, PsyD

Maria Gonzalez, PsyD

Dr. Gonzalez is a Licensed Psychologist offering therapy for executives, entrepreneurs, and high-achieving professionals. Her work integrates cognitive behavioral therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy, and psychodynamic approaches, calibrated to the demands of high-responsibility careers. She sees clients via CEREVITY's nationwide telehealth network. View full bio →

CredentialPsyD, Licensed Psychologist
Years in practice10+ years
SpecializationTherapy for executives, entrepreneurs, and high-achieving professionals
ModalitiesCBT, ACT, EFT, psychodynamic
Author licensureLicensed by the California Board of Psychology
Who you would seeA clinician independently licensed in your own state, through CEREVITY's nationwide network across all 50 states

§§ / Sources

References.

  1. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy. The Efficacy of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and Behavioral Couples Therapy: A Meta-Analysis. 2019. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
  2. Journal of Education and Health Promotion. Effects of integrative behavioral couple therapy on communication patterns and marital adjustment. 2024. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
  3. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology. Long-term effectiveness of behavioral versus insight-oriented marital therapy: a 4-year follow-up study. 1991. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
  4. National Domestic Violence Hotline. Should I Go To Couples Therapy With My Abusive Partner?. 2022. thehotline.org
  5. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. About Intimate Partner Violence. 2024. cdc.gov
  6. CEREVITY. Decision fatigue therapy. cerevity.com/decision-fatigue-therapy
  7. CEREVITY. Leadership isolation therapy. cerevity.com/leadership-isolation-therapy
  8. CEREVITY. Individual therapy. cerevity.com/individual-therapy

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